Our
children are growing up and have become small individuals
with a more apparent personality. After spending 4 weeks
in Sweden with friends and family they were back into speaking
mostly Swedish. We were surprised to see how quickly they
adjusted back to speaking English, being in a tropical climate
and eating Fijian food again. Ill describe a typical
morning to you, to show you a little of what they are like
We are on our way to have devotions at the YWAM-base. The
sun is rising and there is still some fog left in the air.
Linn is walking next to me and I can feel her little hand
in mine. Shes wearing her favourite hat and with much
passion singing a song that shes just created. She
seems totally undisturbed of the people we meet. Happy and
peaceful, content in the way that is so typical for Linn.
In front of me Jonathan is walking next to Fredrik, very
busy checking out everything he sees. Cars, buses, non-stressed
Fijians and of course every little crack and bug that he
sees on the pavement. His whitish-blond curly hair is shining
in the sun when hes trying to look in every direction
at the same time
Stumbles on his feet occasionally
and is pulled up at the last moment by his experienced father.
Linn
has just turned 4 (end of September very important!).
Shes really found a home now as weve moved to
our own apartment (June 1st). Here she can walk in and out
as she wants, ride her bike out in the yard, wave and shout
Bula to people that passes by. She can button
and unbutton her clothes and get dressed herself. Counts
to 20+ in both Swedish and English, speaks English with
her brother and Swedish with us. Likes to read books to
her younger brother (whom is not able to check how accurate
shes reading
)
Five favourites: singing songs (especially her home-made),
hats, backpacks (containing a multitude of little things
she has packed thoroughly), ice cream/Coke and gifts/surprises.
Four terrible: having to stay at home when Mom or Dad is
going out on adventures, being covered by hugs and kisses,
pulled in her hair or pinched in her cheek by strangers
on the street, having to finish her food before eating ice-cream
or not being allowed to choose her own clothes (sweetheart,
we have to hurry up now).
Linn is an extremely helpful young lady. She keeps an eye
on her younger brother when they are out playing in the
garden (something that is much appreciated by her parents
since he has a tendency to come up with not so wise things
sometimes!). She likes to assist on our medical clinics,
often pays the fee to the bus driver or salesman at the
market. Loves to give everyone a treat and buy ice-cream
with her own money when we go for a swim at the local pool
(money that she is given by strangers on the street only
because she is so cute!). All this she does with great enthusiasm
and preferably while singing. If she gets to help folding
laundry in the evening (after Jonathan has gone to bed)
you will see her making little leaps of joy. She will put
her clothes in tidy piles and with diligence take them to
her wardrobe. As a matter of fact, she keeps better track
of her clothes than Daddy do! J
Jonathan
(turned 2 on July 31st) is picking up new words every day
and is a great fan of his older sister! Shouts come
and this instead of kom/titta as
little Swedish boys normally do. His policy is to do
things the fun way, that is if there is such a way
Otherwise you can just as well not do it
J Some examples
of whats fun: to push his potty back and forth on
the bathroom floor, to paint walls and furniture with crayons
etc, etc
Hes no troublemaker by any means but
simply demands a little more attention compared to what
§his sister did at the same age. Every time he becomes
quiet for more than 45 seconds we start to wonder if he
has just fallen asleep or if hes up to something.
Five favourites: everything that Linn does, being
scratched on his back before he goes to sleep (he loves
all kind of physical contact - especially hugging
its definitely his love-language!), airplanes, animals
of all kind and his che-chop (flip-flops).
Four terrible: having to wait (in general), to be
out-runned by his sister, to be corrected by his parents
and finally to go shopping (like his father)
Jonathan is an extravert (we think), who loves to be around
people and is always charming everyone in a room. Its
easy to read what mood he is in and he quickly goes from
tears to laughter! Hes at the moment busy potty-training
and has stopped taking naps, so it often happens that he
falls asleep over dinner
Being able to spend lots of time outdoors with lovely people
is a great blessing. Especially when you've got children.
That Fiji appears to be a country without dangerous snakes,
spiders or malaria is a great advantage. God is truly good!